STEP 1 — 자막 없이 듣기
오늘은 상담실에서 나누는 대화입니다.
아이 문제로 고민하는 아빠 Jake와
상담사 Emma의 이야기를 들어보세요.
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딕테이션 — 받아쓰기
빈칸을 채워보세요정답
worn정답
argued / skipped정답
(전체 문장)정답
speechless정답
grades정답
gives정답
scared / avoiding정답
pattern정답
path정답
stepping / face정답
fear정답
through정답
next정답
considered / relieved정답
failed정답
repeats / capable정답
(전체 문장)정답
quiet / assumed정답
worst정답
shame / words정답
laziness / discouragement정답
begins정답
explore / stay정답
sideSTEP 2.3 — 스크립트 + 해설
탭하면 해설이 펼쳐져요1Emma You look a little worn out. How have things been? 👆 탭하면 해설
2Jake We argued again. I asked why he skipped his academy homework, and he said he just didn't feel like it. 👆 탭하면 해설
3Emma How did that make you feel? 👆 탭하면 해설
4Jake I was speechless. I couldn't believe that was his reason. 👆 탭하면 해설
5Emma Is it the grades you're most worried about — that he won't do well? 👆 탭하면 해설
6Jake No. What gets to me is that the moment something feels hard, he gives up without even trying.⭐ 핵심 👆 탭하면 해설
7Jake I'm scared that if this continues, he'll keep avoiding hard things in life too. 👆 탭하면 해설
8Emma You're worried this is becoming a pattern.⭐ 핵심 👆 탭하면 해설
9Jake Every path in life has hard parts — even the things people love. 👆 탭하면 해설
10Jake If he keeps stepping away the moment it feels uncomfortable, I don't know how he'll face the real world later. 👆 탭하면 해설
11Emma That's been your real fear from the very start. 👆 탭하면 해설
12Emma Jake, when you feel that anger — what's actually going through your mind in that moment?⭐ 핵심 👆 탭하면 해설
13Jake ...I think it's less about what's happening right now, and more about what comes next. 👆 탭하면 해설
14Emma But when he walks away, have you considered that he may not feel relieved at all afterward?⭐ 핵심 👆 탭하면 해설
15Emma Some kids avoid something and then quietly think, "I failed again." 👆 탭하면 해설
16Emma When that repeats, they begin to believe they're simply not capable. 👆 탭하면 해설
17Jake My son might be feeling that way too... 👆 탭하면 해설
18Jake Thinking back, there were times he stayed unusually quiet after giving up. I assumed he was just being stubborn. 👆 탭하면 해설
19Jake Now I'm wondering if those were the moments he felt the worst about himself. 👆 탭하면 해설
20Emma That's often when shame grows the deepest, especially when a child doesn't yet know how to put it into words. 👆 탭하면 해설
21Jake That changes how I see him. Maybe what looked like laziness was actually discouragement. 👆 탭하면 해설
22Emma Being able to see him that way — that's where it begins. 👆 탭하면 해설
23Emma Next time, let's explore how to help him stay with hard feelings instead of running from them. 👆 탭하면 해설
24Jake Yeah. This is the first time I've really tried to see it from his side.⭐ 핵심 👆 탭하면 해설
스크립트 전문
영문 + 한글EmmaYou look a little worn out. How have things been?
JakeWe argued again. I asked why he skipped his academy homework, and he said he just didn't feel like it.
EmmaHow did that make you feel?
JakeI was speechless. I couldn't believe that was his reason.
EmmaIs it the grades you're most worried about — that he won't do well?
JakeNo. What gets to me is that the moment something feels hard, he gives up without even trying.
JakeI'm scared that if this continues, he'll keep avoiding hard things in life too.
EmmaYou're worried this is becoming a pattern.
JakeEvery path in life has hard parts — even the things people love.
JakeIf he keeps stepping away the moment it feels uncomfortable, I don't know how he'll face the real world later.
EmmaThat's been your real fear from the very start.
EmmaJake, when you feel that anger — what's actually going through your mind in that moment?
Jake...I think it's less about what's happening right now, and more about what comes next.
EmmaBut when he walks away, have you considered that he may not feel relieved at all afterward?
EmmaSome kids avoid something and then quietly think, "I failed again."
EmmaWhen that repeats, they begin to believe they're simply not capable.
JakeMy son might be feeling that way too...
JakeThinking back, there were times he stayed unusually quiet after giving up. I assumed he was just being stubborn.
JakeNow I'm wondering if those were the moments he felt the worst about himself.
EmmaThat's often when shame grows the deepest, especially when a child doesn't yet know how to put it into words.
JakeThat changes how I see him. Maybe what looked like laziness was actually discouragement.
EmmaBeing able to see him that way — that's where it begins.
EmmaNext time, let's explore how to help him stay with hard feelings instead of running from them.
JakeYeah. This is the first time I've really tried to see it from his side.
Emma좀 지쳐 보이시네요. 요즘 어떠셨어요?
Jake또 싸웠어요. 학원 숙제를 왜 안 했냐고 물었더니, 그냥 하기 싫었다고 하더라고요.
Emma그 말을 들었을 때 어떠셨어요?
Jake말문이 막혔어요. 그게 이유가 된다고 생각하는 건지.
Emma답답하신 이유가, 혹시 성적이 잘 나오지 않을까봐인가요?
Jake아니요. 제가 화가 나는 건, 뭔가 힘들다 싶으면 해보지도 않고 포기해버리는 거예요.
Jake이게 계속되면, 살면서도 힘든 걸 계속 피하게 될까봐 두려워요.
Emma패턴이 굳어질까봐 걱정이신 거군요.
Jake살면서 어떤 길을 가든, 좋아하는 일조차 힘든 순간이 있잖아요.
Jake불편하다 싶으면 바로 물러서버리면, 나중에 세상을 어떻게 마주할지 모르겠어요.
Emma그게 처음부터 진짜 두려움이었던 거네요.
EmmaJake 씨, 아이한테 화가 날 때 — 그 순간 머릿속에 어떤 생각이 드세요?
Jake...지금 이 순간보다는, 앞으로 어떻게 될까 하는 게 더 먼저 와요.
Emma그런데 아이가 피하고 나서, 사실은 전혀 홀가분하지 않을 수도 있다는 생각은 해보셨어요?
Emma어떤 아이들은 피하고 나서 조용히 "나 또 실패했다"고 생각해요.
Emma그게 반복되면, 자기는 그냥 안 되는 사람이라고 믿게 돼요.
Jake우리 아이도 그런 마음일 수 있겠네요...
Jake돌이켜보면, 포기하고 나서 유난히 조용했던 적이 있었어요. 그냥 고집 피우는 거라고만 생각했는데.
Jake지금 생각하니, 그때가 아이가 스스로를 제일 못났다고 느끼던 순간이었을 수도 있겠네요.
Emma그럴 때 수치심이 가장 깊이 자리 잡아요. 아직 말로 표현할 줄 모를 때 특히요.
Jake아이가 다르게 보이네요. 게으름처럼 보였던 게, 사실은 낙담이었을 수도 있겠구나.
Emma아이를 그렇게 볼 수 있게 된 것, 그게 바로 시작이에요.
Emma다음엔 힘든 감정을 피하지 않고 버틸 수 있도록 어떻게 도울지 같이 생각해봐요.
Jake네. 처음으로 아이 입장에서 생각해본 것 같아요.
STEP 4 — 핵심문장 말하기
한글 보고 영어로 말해보세요1아니요. 제가 화가 나는 건, 뭔가 힘들다 싶으면 해보지도 않고 포기해버리는 거예요. 👆 탭하면 정답이 나와요
2패턴이 굳어질까봐 걱정이신 거군요. 👆 탭하면 정답이 나와요
3Jake 씨, 아이한테 화가 날 때 — 그 순간 머릿속에 어떤 생각이 드세요? 👆 탭하면 정답이 나와요
4그런데 아이가 피하고 나서, 사실은 전혀 홀가분하지 않을 수도 있다는 생각은 해보셨어요? 👆 탭하면 정답이 나와요
5네. 처음으로 아이 입장에서 생각해본 것 같아요. 👆 탭하면 정답이 나와요
STEP 5 — 복습 듣기
처음보다 더 많이 들리나요?
들리는 문장을 따라 말해보세요! 🗣️
give up without even trying / become a pattern / go through one's mind 같은
핵심 표현들이 귀에 들리면 성공입니다! ✨
feel relieved / see it from one's side도
꼭 귀로 확인해보세요 👂
CHECK — 확인 퀴즈
20문제정답 확인
"He gives up without even trying."
정답 확인
정답 확인
"What's going through your mind in that moment?"
정답 확인
"You look a little worn out. How have things been?"
정답 확인
정답 확인
"I'm scared that he'll keep to avoid hard things."
정답 확인
정답 확인
"a loss of confidence or enthusiasm; a feeling of disappointment and hopelessness"
정답 확인
정답 확인
"Have you considered that he may not feel relieved at all afterward?"
정답 확인
정답 확인
정답 확인
"When that repeats, they begin to believe they're simply not capable."
정답 확인
정답 확인
"This is the first time I've really tried to see it from his side."
정답 확인
정답 확인
"I asked why he skipped his academy homework."
정답 확인
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